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Questions to ask your boyfriend

"What are you thinking about" gets you nothing. Multiple choice gets you an answer, and the answer gets you the story behind it. Every question here has options, which means every question has a follow-up fight or a follow-up laugh built in.

On Games we Play, you both answer AND guess each other — the score is how well you actually know him.

1.What made you swipe right, honestly?

2.What's the perfect date-night vibe?

3.How nervous are you about actually meeting?

4.What should date-night dinner be?

5.First thought when we matched?

6.What's your first-round order?

7.Who have you told about this match?

8.Movie night — what are we watching?

The other 52 are better with your person.

On Games we Play you both answer, both guess each other, and the reveal is scored.

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  1. 9. What almost made you NOT swipe?

    🫣 Photo #3. We need to talk · 📝 One suspicious bio line · 📍 The distance · ⚡ Nothing. Instant yes

  2. 10. After dinner, where does the night go?

    💃 Keep going — music, dancing · 🌙 Long walk, big talks · 🍨 Second location: dessert · 🏠 Home while it's still perfect

  3. 11. Pre-date research level?

    🔍 Full deep-dive, 2019 posts · 📄 Respectful skim · 🙈 Going in blind

  4. 12. It's midnight and we're still out. What's the move?

    🍕 Late-night slice, obviously · 🥃 One more bar — a quiet one · 🪩 Dancing till they close · 🌃 The long walk home

  5. 13. Your profile pics — honest verdict?

    📸 Accurate — that's really me · 🎯 My best angles, strategically · ⏳ Slightly outdated, still cute · ✨ Honestly? Better in person

  6. 14. Where's our first weekend trip?

    🏙️ A city neither of us knows · 🛖 Cabin, fireplace, no signal · 🏝️ Somewhere warm with water · 🚗 Road trip, playlist matters

  7. 15. What should the first date be?

    🍸 Drinks — easy exit, easy extend · 🍝 Dinner — commit to the night · 🎳 Something to do — games, mini golf · ☕ Coffee walk, classic

  8. 16. How do you feel about surprises on a date?

    🎁 Love them — don't tell me anything · 🗓️ Surprise the what, tell me the when · 📋 Tell me everything, I'll act surprised

  9. 17. What energy are you bringing to date one?

    😌 Calm and unbothered (fake) · 🎤 A thousand questions · 😏 Full flirt from minute one · 🫶 Charmingly awkward

  10. 18. How much PDA on a date?

    💑 Hand-holding, the works · 🤝 Low-key — an arm, a look · 🚪 Save it for the door

  11. 19. Biggest surprise so far?

    😂 Funnier than the profile · 🌊 Deeper than expected · 📱 How much I check my phone now · 🤓 Secretly a huge nerd

  12. 20. Live-music date — what's the show?

    🏟️ Stadium pop, scream the words · 🎷 Tiny jazz bar · 🎧 DJ set till late · 🎸 Indie band in a small room

  13. 21. Which kitchen crime makes you maddest?

    🍽️ Dishes 'soaking' for days · 🥛 Empty carton back in the fridge · 🔪 Wrong knife for everything · 🍞 Counter crumbs left behind

  14. 22. Cheesy date ideas — mini golf, aquarium?

    ⛳ Yes. All of them. Immediately · 😏 Fun ironically… then actually fun · 🙅 We're better than mini golf

  15. 23. The phone habit you can't stand?

    🔊 Videos on speaker in public · 📱 Scrolling mid-conversation · 🔴 10,000 unread notifications · ⏳ Replying in 0.2s to others, not them

  16. 24. How do we order for the table?

    🥢 Everything shared, order together · 🍽️ My plate is my plate · 👨‍🍳 Let the chef decide

  17. 25. In the car, you can't stand…

    🗣️ Backseat driving · ⏭️ Someone skipping their song · 🐌 Slow drivers in the fast lane · 🗺️ Ignoring the GPS 'shortcut'

  18. 26. Sudden downpour mid-date. That's…

    🌧️ A movie moment — dance in it · 🍸 The universe saying: bar, now · ☔ Reschedule. Hair exists

  19. 27. The movie-night violation that gets you?

    🗣️ Talking during the good part · 📱 Phone out, screen bright · 🚨 “I've seen this — watch him” · 😴 Asleep in 10 minutes

  20. 28. Photos on dates?

    📸 Document everything, golden hour · 🤳 One good one, then phones away · 📵 No phones, live it

  21. 29. The bedroom crime that gets you?

    🛏️ Blanket theft · ⏰ Five alarms, all snoozed · 🥶 Ice-cold feet attack · 💡 Light on while they sleep

  22. 30. “My ideal Sunday starts with…”

    ☕ …coffee before words · 🏃 …moving my body · 🤫 …blissful silence · 🥞 …something with syrup

  23. 31. Out with people, it kills you when someone…

    ✋ Interrupts constantly · 📱 Is on their phone all night · 🔁 Tells THAT story again · 🧮 Does bill math out loud

  24. 32. “Nothing makes me happier than…”

    🙏 …plans getting cancelled · 🍝 …a perfect meal · 😂 …laughing till it hurts · 🏆 …winning anything

  25. 33. The texting habit that ends you?

    💀 The single “k.” · 🎙️ 6-minute voice memos · 👻 Left on read · 🔤 NO PUNCTUATION EVER

  26. 34. “When I'm stressed I…”

    🧹 …clean everything · 🤐 …go very quiet · 🗣️ …need to talk it out · 🍫 …stress-snack

  27. 35. The sound that makes you leave the room?

    😬 Loud chewing · 🖊️ Pen clicking · ⏰ Someone ELSE's alarm going · 🍜 The slurp

  28. 36. “My guilty pleasure is…”

    📺 …terrible reality TV · ☕ …a little gossip · 🛒 …online carts at 1am · 😴 …three-hour naps

  29. 37. Your plans-related peeve?

    🎈 Last-minute cancellers · 🤷 “I don't mind, you pick” · 📋 Minute-by-minute itineraries · ⏰ Chronically late people

  30. 38. “If I had a superpower it'd be…”

    🌀 …teleportation · 🧠 …reading minds · ⏸️ …pausing time · 🕊️ …flying

  31. 39. Your bathroom-shelf dispute starter?

    🪥 Toothpaste squeezed wrong · 🛏️ Wet towel on the bed · 🚿 Hair in the drain · 🧴 47 products, one shelf

  32. 40. “I could never date someone who…”

    😤 …is rude to waiters · 🥱 …has no curiosity · 🌪️ …lives in chaos · 📱 …is glued to their phone

  33. 41. How fast did you reply to my first message, really?

    ⚡ Embarrassingly fast · ⏱️ Strategically delayed · 📅 Genuinely busy, promise · 📝 Drafted it three times first

  34. 42. “At 80 years old I'll be…”

    🌱 …gardening at dawn · ✈️ …still catching flights · 🪑 …judging from the porch · 🕺 …the last one dancing

  35. 43. The least accurate thing on my profile is…

    📸 The photos are my top 1% · 🧗 A hobby I did exactly twice · 📏 We don't discuss the height · ✅ It's all painfully accurate

  36. 44. “If I won the lottery, first thing…”

    🏡 …buy the dream house · 🌍 …quit everything, travel · 👨‍👩‍👧 …set up my family · 🤫 …tell no one, change nothing

  37. 45. My opening-message style is…

    ❓ A question about your profile · 🎯 A joke with a 60% hit rate · 👋 "hey" — efficient, classic · 🌪️ Something chaotic that filters people

  38. 46. “I will absolutely cry at…”

    💒 …any wedding · 🐕 …dog movies · 🛬 …airport reunions · 🗿 …nothing. I'm a rock

  39. 47. The green flag that hooked me:

    😂 Actually funny, not "lol" funny · 🎤 Asked real questions back · 📖 Full sentences. Punctuation · 📍 Suggested a plan, fast

  40. 48. “Wide awake at 3am, I'm probably…”

    🌀 …deep in a thought spiral · 📱 …scrolling something dumb · 🍕 …raiding the kitchen · 😴 …asleep. Always asleep

  41. 49. Before our first date I…

    👗 Tried on five outfits · 🔍 Did light background research · 🪞 Gave myself a mirror pep talk · 😎 Rolled in like it was nothing

  42. 50. “The perfect gift for me is…”

    🎯 …something you remembered · 🎟️ …an experience together · 🧰 …practical and useful · 🎁 …anything, if it's a surprise

  43. 51. Did you have an escape plan for our first date?

    📞 The fake emergency call, armed · 🕵️ A friend on standby · ⏰ A soft "early morning" excuse · 🎈 No plan. Reckless optimism

  44. 52. “The most annoying thing about me is…”

    🤔 …I can't decide anything · 🧱 …I'm always right (I am) · ⏰ …my relationship with time · 🎤 …constant humming/singing

  45. 53. The exact moment I relaxed:

    😄 The first real laugh · 🍷 Halfway through drink one · 💬 When we hit THAT topic · 🫠 Hour three. I run anxious

  46. 54. Dessert plan?

    🍮 One dessert, two spoons · 🍰 Own dessert. Boundaries · 🍦 Walk somewhere for gelato · 🍸 Skip it — another drink

  47. 55. Did my profile get screenshotted to your group chat?

    📸 Before I even replied · 🗳️ Yes — you were approved 4–1 · 📅 Only after date one · 🤐 I keep my chats private

  48. 56. Where do we sit?

    🛋️ Corner booth, side by side · 🍹 At the bar, watching the shakers · 🪟 Window table, people-watching · 🌙 Outside, even slightly too cold

  49. 57. The tiny thing that sealed it:

    🙏 How you treated the staff · 🧠 You remembered a small detail · 😅 You laughed at the bad joke · 🍽️ Your order. Elite taste

  50. 58. It's midnight and the place is closing. We…

    🏡 Head home — perfect ending · 🚶 Long walk, no destination · 🍸 Find one more open bar · 🍟 Late-night greasy food

  51. 59. My actual pre-date worry was…

    😶 Being boring · 🎆 Being too much · 🪞 Not matching my photos · 🍝 Ordering the messy thing

  52. 60. Who plans the perfect date?

    📋 Me. I love the planning · 🎁 You — surprise me · 🤝 We plot it together · 🎲 Nobody. We wing everything

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