Question 1

What's the perfect date-night vibe?

Accepted Answer

Options: Dressed up, somewhere fancy · Dive bar, great jukebox · Cooking together at home · Something neither of us has done. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 2

Would you rather: South of France or Italian coast?

Accepted Answer

Options: South of France · Italian coast. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 3

What should date-night dinner be?

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Options: Sushi omakase · Italian, share everything · Tacos and margaritas · Steakhouse classic. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 4

Would you rather: St. Barth or Turks & Caicos?

Accepted Answer

Options: St. Barth · Turks & Caicos. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 5

What's your first-round order?

Accepted Answer

Options: Glass of wine · Something with a story · Cold beer · Something zero-proof. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 6

Would you rather: Aspen or St. Moritz?

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Options: Aspen · St. Moritz. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 7

Movie night — what are we watching?

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Options: A rom-com classic · Thriller, edge of the couch · Something we've both seen 10× · A24 weirdness. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 8

Would you rather: Niseko powder or Courchevel?

Accepted Answer

Options: Niseko powder · Courchevel. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 9

After dinner, where does the night go?

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Options: Keep going — music, dancing · Long walk, big talks · Second location: dessert · Home while it's still perfect. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 10

Would you rather: Tulum or Mykonos?

Accepted Answer

Options: Tulum · Mykonos. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 11

It's midnight and we're still out. What's the move?

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Options: Late-night slice, obviously · One more bar — a quiet one · Dancing till they close · The long walk home. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 12

Would you rather: Ibiza or Saint-Tropez?

Accepted Answer

Options: Ibiza · Saint-Tropez. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 13

Where's our first weekend trip?

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Options: A city neither of us knows · Cabin, fireplace, no signal · Somewhere warm with water · Road trip, playlist matters. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 14

Would you rather: Paris or London?

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Options: Paris · London. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 15

How do you feel about surprises on a date?

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Options: Love them — don't tell me anything · Surprise the what, tell me the when · Tell me everything, I'll act surprised. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 16

Would you rather: New York or Los Angeles?

Accepted Answer

Options: New York · Los Angeles. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 17

How much PDA on a date?

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Options: Hand-holding, the works · Low-key — an arm, a look · Save it for the door. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 18

Would you rather: Miami or Palm Beach?

Accepted Answer

Options: Miami · Palm Beach. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 19

Live-music date — what's the show?

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Options: Stadium pop, scream the words · Tiny jazz bar · DJ set till late · Indie band in a small room. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 20

Would you rather: Tokyo or Seoul?

Accepted Answer

Options: Tokyo · Seoul. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 21

Cheesy date ideas — mini golf, aquarium?

Accepted Answer

Options: Yes. All of them. Immediately · Fun ironically… then actually fun · We're better than mini golf. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 22

Would you rather: Maldives or Bora Bora?

Accepted Answer

Options: Maldives · Bora Bora. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 23

How do we order for the table?

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Options: Everything shared, order together · My plate is my plate · Let the chef decide. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 24

Would you rather: Safari or Yacht week?

Accepted Answer

Options: Safari · Yacht week. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 25

Sudden downpour mid-date. That's…

Accepted Answer

Options: A movie moment — dance in it · The universe saying: bar, now · Reschedule. Hair exists. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 26

Would you rather: Positano or Capri?

Accepted Answer

Options: Positano · Capri. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 27

Photos on dates?

Accepted Answer

Options: Document everything, golden hour · One good one, then phones away · No phones, live it. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 28

Would you rather: Santorini or Amalfi?

Accepted Answer

Options: Santorini · Amalfi. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 29

What made you swipe right, honestly?

Accepted Answer

Options: The photos. Obviously · The bio made me laugh · That match percentage · Pure vibes, no notes. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 30

Would you rather: Monaco GP or Cannes?

Accepted Answer

Options: Monaco GP · Cannes. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 31

How nervous are you about actually meeting?

Accepted Answer

Options: Already rehearsing openers · Good butterflies · Cool as a cucumber. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 32

Would you rather: Après-ski or Beach club?

Accepted Answer

Options: Après-ski · Beach club. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 33

First thought when we matched?

Accepted Answer

Options: “Out of my league” · “Oh no, this is trouble” · “Why is chatting this easy?” · “Finally, someone interesting”. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 34

Would you rather: Lake Como or Lake Tahoe?

Accepted Answer

Options: Lake Como · Lake Tahoe. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 35

Who have you told about this match?

Accepted Answer

Options: Best friend, immediately · The entire group chat · Mom (don't judge) · Nobody — keeping it close. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 36

Would you rather: Dubai or Singapore?

Accepted Answer

Options: Dubai · Singapore. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 37

What almost made you NOT swipe?

Accepted Answer

Options: Photo #3. We need to talk · One suspicious bio line · The distance · Nothing. Instant yes. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 38

Would you rather: Sardinia or Sicily?

Accepted Answer

Options: Sardinia · Sicily. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 39

Pre-date research level?

Accepted Answer

Options: Full deep-dive, 2019 posts · Respectful skim · Going in blind. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

Question 40

Would you rather: Big Sur or The Hamptons?

Accepted Answer

Options: Big Sur · The Hamptons. Answer it together on Games we Play and see if you match.

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